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Paolo M. Mottola Jr.

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WORD IS BORN

I started this blog WAY back in 2007 as "Word Is Born." The spirit remains the same: my thoughts and photos, random as they are. Enjoy.


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WE THREE ARE ITALIAN CITIZENS! 🇮🇹 🎉 (Note: Super weird to celebrate anything considering COVID-19 and Black injustice crises.) Twelve years ago -- way before I had kids, right before I met Amanda -- I started exploring dual citizenship. Perch&egra
WE THREE ARE ITALIAN CITIZENS! 🇮🇹 🎉 (Note: Super weird to celebrate anything considering COVID-19 and Black injustice crises.) Twelve years ago -- way before I had kids, right before I met Amanda -- I started exploring dual citizenship. Perchè no? I didn't know what the future would hold, but I knew opening more doors for education and work in my father's country and greater EU would be good for me and future generations. Oh, and the history, culture, landscapes, pride of lineage, etc. I wanted to power up from half Italian to full citizen. I set a first citizenship appointment in San Francisco in 2010, the same year Amanda and I married, but didn't get enough paperwork together time. I had some other stops and starts but thanks to some major legwork led by cousin @mikebaiocchi I finally set an appointment two years ago for a January 2020 appointment at the consulate in San Francisco. We made it a fun little family vacation. The appointment itself went well (after some fair shaming about my language progress). We came home and waited for confirmation but of course COVID-19 devastated Italy, and I didn't expect to hear anything soon. Well, the surprise came in the mail today 🙌🏻. Eliza and Matteo automatically gained citizenship. Amanda has a few more steps (notably a high level of language achievement) to gain citizenship through marriage, but I am super pumped to reach this longtime goal! Forza Italia! 🇮🇹🇮🇹🇮🇹
Took the family for a (peaceful protest) walk around the neighborhood. 👊🏻👊🏽👊🏿
Took the family for a (peaceful protest) walk around the neighborhood. 👊🏻👊🏽👊🏿
Last day in Kent HQ (but not my last at REI!). I've spent some of my best years here in the Kent valley.

I remember after leaving Eddie Bauer, my next stop had to be REI. They had a co-op model, big stores, real community events! I knocked on t
Last day in Kent HQ (but not my last at REI!). I've spent some of my best years here in the Kent valley. I remember after leaving Eddie Bauer, my next stop had to be REI. They had a co-op model, big stores, real community events! I knocked on these doors and many kind people responded. @nattyluna and @jordowilliams kindly met me for informational interviews. @lux2, after intense interrogation, finally conceded and offered me a job on the social media team to join @kelly_ann_walsh. Shout out to some of my other bosses over the years: @rowleycraig, @sarahjeanneisme @mrajet and @ph9er. Too many colleagues and teammates over the years to tag but so appreciative of the shared time. The work we did in this place will define my career and the brand for years to come. OptOutside, Force of Nature, etc. I’ve been able to pay it forward and meet people for informational interviews and hire some of them myself. I’ve met a lot of great people and forged a kit of friendship with people who were also willing to come to Kent. Because the location doesn’t matter so much as the mission. Shout out to those who literally drove with me and endured the I-5 commute that future generations won't comprehend: @jruckle @angelafgow @halleyrebecca @shelb_hall. Next stop, REI Tacoma (work at home) and a smattering of new Bellevue HQ. Onward.
I published monthly letters for these Puget Sound saltwater 🐟. Link in profile. #deareliza #dearmatteo
I published monthly letters for these Puget Sound saltwater 🐟. Link in profile. #deareliza #dearmatteo

Dear Matteo, 74 Months Old

September 03, 2023

“That’s a fish, that’s a fish! Grab the net!”

And then we start the fast chain of events to catch a salmon: I pull the rod up off the holder and start reeling and fighting the fish. I pause for a few moments in reeling to free a hand and slow the boat and also turn the switch to pull up the downrigger. You grab the net and get ready toward the front of the boat, peering eagle-eyed into the deep water. We both communicate when we see the fish and where it is relative to the boat, trying to keep it away from the other line still in the water. As the fish comes toward the boat, I tell you when to drop the net and when to pull it up. We see the fish enter the hoop, and you pull with all your strength. All within 30-40 seconds, we have a 8-to-10-pound Coho (silver salmon) flopping around the boat.

You’re unafraid to bat the fish (though I follow-up for certainty) and pull it out of the net. I take a picture of your trophy and winning smile. We bleed it, reset the lines, and continue the adventure.

Whew.

Though I’ve only taken fishing seriously this summer, I get what it’s all about. At minimum, you’re on the water and enjoying the sights of Puget Sound. That’s an easy and given win. Every so often or not for an entire day, a fish bites and the action begins.

When your Mom and I took our fishing trip up to the Kenai to catch sockeye salmon, there were a lot of fish in the river and there was an expectationt to hook one frequently, hence the point of the trip. But down here in Puget Sound and especially Marine Area 13 (south of the Narrows), there aren’t nearly as many fish and so the bites are rare and when they happen it feels like a lottery win. We’ve lost more than a couple of fish, too, and that feels like losing a close game that you want to replay. So you keep fishing.

The downtime in fishing — the vast majority — is a nice aspect for adults (a break from the grind) but can be boring for kids coming off all the excitement of school and dopamine hits of devices. Despite that, you’ve been a great partner and willing to get on the boat whenver I ask. We mix up things up with music and dance parties that get sideways glances from the camo-clad boats we pass when trolling. To each their own.

Like with skiing or hiking, I’m just glad we can enjoy what’s nearby and outside. Now we have a good water sport to keep us busy and together. Maybe we’ll catch a fish and get to eat it, or maybe we’ll just get to hang out and eat gummy bears. Either way, I’m a happy Dad.

Love, Dad

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